I absolutely love the sexual practice of tease and denial when it comes to my slaves, but until now, I had never once tried it in my own personal sex life!
With my “significant other” (I phrase that VERY loosely) I decided that I wanted to try a tease and denial session with him one night. It wasn’t for the cruel fact of denying him pleasure, as with my slaves, but quite the opposite. When it comes to my slaves, tease and denial becomes almost unbearably painful (one of the reasons I never brought it to my bedroom) but then I got online one day and read a VERY interesting article that stated, done carefully and correctly, tease and denial could actually be EXTREMELY pleasurable for the person being controlled.
In this instance of tease and denial, it’s not about ruined orgasms or blue balls, but more about staying at the peak of sexual arousal, and prolonging sexual sensations, which sounds pretty pleasurable to me!
So, this one night, I tried it out on my man, and he absolutely loved it. . . And so did I! He was able to last SO much longer in the sack, and just the idea of cum control in my head was making me orgasm all the more! There was no struggle on his part, no desperation to cum, because the more I climaxed, the more able he was to hold back and truly enjoy every moment coming from my own body.
He ended up not blasting a load the entire night, or any night since then (which was ALMOST a week ago) I begged for the reasoning behind it, but it was something he couldn’t describe. Tease and denial, or depriving himself of orgasm, he said it almost seemed like he transferred them all to me, and seeing me cum over and over again, was creating more sensations than he would be able to describe, and actually was more pleasurable than an actual orgasm would be for himself.
I can’t complain about that!