I absolutely love the sexual practice of tease and denial when it comes to my slaves, but until now, I had never once tried it in my own personal sex life!
With my “significant other” (I phrase that VERY loosely) I decided that I wanted to try a tease and denial session with him one night. It wasn’t for the cruel fact of denying him pleasure, as with my slaves, but quite the opposite. When it comes to my slaves, tease and denial becomes almost unbearably painful (one of the reasons I never brought it to my bedroom) but then I got online one day and read a VERY interesting article that stated, done carefully and correctly, tease and denial could actually be EXTREMELY pleasurable for the person being controlled.
In this instance of tease and denial, it’s not about ruined orgasms or blue balls, but more about staying at the peak of sexual arousal, and prolonging sexual sensations, which sounds pretty pleasurable to me!
So, this one night, I tried it out on my man, and he absolutely loved it. . . And so did I! He was able to last SO much longer in the sack, and just the idea of cum control in my head was making me orgasm all the more! There was no struggle on his part, no desperation to cum, because the more I climaxed, the more able he was to hold back and truly enjoy every moment coming from my own body.
He ended up not blasting a load the entire night, or any night since then (which was ALMOST a week ago) I begged for the reasoning behind it, but it was something he couldn’t describe. Tease and denial, or depriving himself of orgasm, he said it almost seemed like he transferred them all to me, and seeing me cum over and over again, was creating more sensations than he would be able to describe, and actually was more pleasurable than an actual orgasm would be for himself.
I can’t complain about that!
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I have one of my panty wearing sissy boys about to call me, he just sent me a message that he’s getting ready for our call. He has a whole routine he likes to go through before each call. He likes to shower when he gets home from work and shave his entire body. Many sissy boys are very well groomed if nothing else! He then likes to set his hair in rollers after he washes it and dries it with the blow dryer, the old fashioned helmet type of bonnet dryers like they have in salons.
He then does his makeup and nails, the whole nine yards, but would you expect anything less from a sissy boy? No, they don’t do things by halves it seems. Sissy boys like to be organized with their routines I have found. They can be quite particular with things. It takes him hours to get ready for our call, to be all dressed up the way he likes, fancy ingerie he has spent time co ordinating with his outfit, even though no one will ever see it. A sissy boy likes to look good even if he’s the only one that will see the end result.
Many times they take many pictures of themselves, a sissy boy can be quite vain I have found. Some have created elaborate ode to themselves blogs, showcasing their fashion sense and clothes they own and different looks they have sported and whatnot. I have seen some of them and been impressed, many are downright narcissistic, but entertaining none the less. I can’t blame them for being self involved, many times they don’t have anyone, since they’ve been rejected by others, so of course they are going to make themselves the center of their own lives. Such is the life of a sissy boy.
I absolutely love the company of a rubber sissy.
When I have a rubber sissy in my presence, usually in my dungeon, I just love the way his eyes light up and glisten when he sees all the toys, torture devices, and clothing that I own that are made of latex, rubber and PVC. A rubber sissy will instantly start begging me to pull out every rubber thing I own, begging that I will pull on my rubber cat suit, or that they can try on my rubber masks or ball gags, pants, suits, etc.
A rubber sissy is so easy to torture, too. All I have to do is open my rubber closet, let them take a peek inside, and then shut the doors. It drives them wild! All you have to do to make a rubber sissy crazy is show them the rubber, and then make it disappear. No actual torture necessary. No cock and ball torture, no devices; I mean, strapping them down before hand is of course necessary because otherwise they will just jump up and try to pry open my rubber closet. But other than that, there is not much you need to do to entertain yourself when you are in the presence of a rubber sissy. They are some of the biggest little bitches in the world. Take away their rubber and they have a fit. They will cry, moan, beg for mercy.
Leaving them completely naked on a cold metal slab is one of my favorite ways to torment them. I will take out anything made of rubber, a dildo for example, rubber it across their body, and then take it away.
They can’t do anything about it. It makes their cock hard, and then they fall limp. Blue balls to the extreme, at least for a rubber sissy.
Ah, playtime is so much fun when you are taking out torture on a rubber sissy.
One of my favorite sexy time activities is tease and denial.
Tease and denial fascinated me the minute I heard about it.
I found out that tease and denial was a huge turn on for me, way before I started working in BDSM.
It all started one night when me and my boyfriend at the time were laying in bed together, and I would, without realizing, gently run my fingers across his cock and balls.
All the sudden he would start to breathe heavily, so I started doing it more and more; caressing and touching around his cock and balls, but not actually making direct contact.
I took it farther; I would run my hand over him and he would practically be jumping and thrusting, trying desperately to get my fingers wrapped around his junk. When he would do this I would stop, the beginning of his tease and denial session.
“You will be still and quiet, and wait patiently until I want to touch you.” He would do this for a while, but would start up again, begging me to touch him; that he would do anything for this tease and denial to end.
This is when I realized how good I really was at tease and denial, and how easy it was to get men to do what you wanted when you didn’t give them what they wanted right away.
It made me realize how great a job this might be, especially since I had been toying with the idea of becoming a dominatrix anyway. I figured this could be my specialty, and if not, it could come in handy for the pushy assholes I would probably get as clients in that field.
Like I said, this is how I became so well trained in the field of tease and denial; no man can resist my touch!
One of my guys phoned me up last night and said he wanted a little something different than our normal domination calls we have been doing. I asked him what he had in mind, and he told me how he saw some of the porn his wife has been looking at and she told he she wanted to maybe bring another guy into their bed and try a mmf threesome and what did he think of such a situation. He told her he wasn’t any fag and he didn’t like the idea, but after he thought about it, he started to reconsider. I knew this guy was going down the forced bi path.
I had been thinking of bringing up some forced bi on our last few calls actually, but wasn’t sure how to broach the subject with him, since he’d never leaned that way before. This was the perfect opportunity for forced bi in our conversations, the upcoming threesome with another guy his wife wanted. I think his wife will indeed be able to get him to do the forced bi cocksucking, I can see it now. They all start out so reluctant, but they are pretty well all natural born cocksuckers in my opinion.
They all balk at first, but once you do forced bi on them once, I swear it becomes an aquired taste for them. They often even start out masturbating and tasting their own cum, and this gives them the craving for another man’s cum, it’s a slippery slope to cocksucking I always say! They start to fantasize about other men as they masturbate, and then the powerful urge to suck cock overcomes them and they have to get it, often going to seedy glory holes or adult bookstores or parks in the dark kind of a thing. They get it one way or the other.
You would think that only those big, hot black men would be chasing after my chubby booty, right? WRONG!
I feel like more than ever I have white and Latino men cat calling when I walk down the street, and even more so whooping at me, hollering comments at me about my chubby booty! Don’t get me wrong, I absolutely love the attention my chubby booty gets me, and I have given out my number to more than just a couple of those guys, pending looks and the bulge in their jeans. I am just really REALLY shocked that I am not handing out my digits to more sexy black men.
Now, say, like, five to seven years ago, I was “getting to know” more black men, with thanks to my chubby booty, in just ONE week; way, way, WAY more than I would in any given month now a days. I just can’t find it in my heart to believe that black men aren’t attracted to my big and luscious chubby booty anymore. These guys are the ones who started the whole attraction to big butts, and they turned many men of other races on to it, thank the lord, right!?
It surprises me that black guys diggin’ the big booty isn’t the way the world works anymore. I don’t know what it is that black men of today are attracted to, but sorry ladies, the chubby booty just doesn’t cut it anymore.
And like I said, I am NOT dissin’ on those hot men of other races that ARE into the bubble butts, because trust me, I absolutely love that I can pick up a hot guy of any racial color just because of my chubby booty, and us ladies know that diversity is key to a good sex life!
I just wish that I could throw in more black men every once in a while!
Clients that are into sissification are drawn to me in many different types of ways. If they see my page and see that it is an interest of mine, of course they contact me and ask how I like to approach it and if I really enjoy sissification of my clients and whatnot. Of course I do I explain to them, and tell them a good deal of my clients are looking for sissification and that’s a good deal of what I do with clients. I do many different types of dominating and feminization and a number of different types of fetishes.
Sissification and feminization are very similar, but not all sissies wish to be feminized, some have no interest in being put into makeup or having their hair done or anything like that. They can be into getting put into lingerie and made to suck cock and getting fucked up the ass with a big, thick strap on. This is the kind of stuff that most like. And some into sissification can be a bit effeminate themselves and been made to feel like sissies their entire lives, so it’s natural for someone to do sissification things like these to them.
I know of a book on sissification stories I often recommend they read so they can learn of the struggles of other sissies so they won’t feel so alone. I have told them of the adult bookstores that I know carry it, and we all know what goes on in the back of many adult bookstores, don’t we….That’s right, glory holes and often as I said they can be interested in cock sucking, so by sending them there, I know they might find more than just a book on sissification stories. They might find a few huge cocks to suck as well.
It sometimes amazes me that ones into cuckold humiliation don’t all have small cocks. Many of them do yes, but when I begin a call and ask them if their cocks are small, some will say no, not at all. So it’s not that they are only into cuckold humiliation since they are of such a size as to not satisfy their women, many times it is just that they enjoy seeing their women get fucked by guys that are so much larger than they are. So one might have a 7 inch cock, which is in fact larger than the North American average of 5 1/2 inches, yet they have fantasies of seeing her get fucked by a 12 inch cock.
It still makes them look small. One caller that used to call me, haven’t heard from him in quite some time, he used to have fantasies about guys fucking me and him watching, and the cocks he would envision would be 16 inches long! I was always incredulous at the conversations the two of us would have. He would call for around an hour each time and as the conversation progressed, each cock in the cuckold humiliation was bigger than the one before. He was into cuckold humiliation because his cock was smaller than average, but as I said that is not always the case.
Most seem to want the other guy to be black due to the stereotype of black men having larger cocks. This is a very deeply ingrained part of the cuckold humiliation fantasy I find, and most that have it seem to want this aspect I have found. I have done so many calls on cuckold humiliation I cannot even count them all, so I know it is a very popular fantasy for men to have.
When I was in college, a number of friends of mine and myself formed what we called as The Pricktease Posse. We actually had small contests amongst ourselves involving guys and our mutual love of tease and denial of unsuspecting guys. We would see who could get the most blue balls under their belt so to speak. I won on several occasions. Sometimes there would be a free dinner or concert tickets or a new purse or something as the prize for who did the most severe tease and denial treatment. I was quite the teaser even at that age.
The Pricktease Posse taught me many of my skills I put to use even now in my job. Getting a guy worked up then walking away, it takes a special type of girl to do that. Some are too soft, they feel mean doing tease and denial. I personally have never had such a problem. I find it empowering as a woman to make those cocks and balls throb and ache with a need that will never be fulfilled. It warms the cockles of my little heart to see the pain and disbelief on their faces when I have them absolutely dripping, then turn and walk away with a smile upon my lips…..
Tease and denial isn’t for the faint of heart. It takes a powerful woman to size up the situationa nd realize how far to take it without allowing them to go over the edge. I am just such a woman. I consider it my duty to make the men ache for me and deny them that release. And for ones that I misjudge that do go over the edge, well, I make damned sure it’s a ruined orgasm so that tension and pressure isn’t totally alleviated. It’s fun to have them pay me to practice tease and denial and be so cruel to them…..
My one man friend, Pete, has the most hardcore with breast milk and nursing bras I have ever come across.
Right after I had had my child, he would call me every day, wanting to know if I had breast fed yet, if there was any left over he could have, if he could come over and watch the next time I breast fed, and he would ALWAYS ask if I was wearing a nursing bra at that exact moment.
I absolutely loved the attention he gave me during that time. I would get so turned on just by the sound of his voice over the phone, whispering about my nursing bra and leaking nipples.
I would invite Pete over, and he would arrive faster than I ever thought possible. The way his eyes would light up when I removed my shirt and was wearing nothing but my nursing bra would get me so excited. He was practically drooling by the time I pulled down the flap and uncovered my nipple.
The times I offered him my nipple, he would pounce on my tit, suckling and lapping up as much of my breast milk as humanly possible, and yes, I was extremely turned on.
Our relationship never became sexual though. Okay, I mean, yeah, it was sexual in the sense that we were both turned on by my nursing bras and the breast sucking. But we never had sex. It was only ever about the nursing bras and my breast milk.
I wanted to fuck him on several occasions, but once he had his fill of my warm tit milk, he was gone before I even had time to fully put my nursing bra back on. It never upset me though. It was only a matter of time before he was craving my tits again, and would be calling me up, begging to come over again.
Not only did I love the attention, but my breasts were always so relieved, too!
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